- Ritvvij Parrikh
Pune, India
hmmmm....
I ll start off with a fiticious story..
One a guy was travelling from Mumbai to NewYork..! The flight lasted for more than 12 hours.. The person got bored and started talkin with this gal sitting next to him..... Both find out tht they have common interets...!! and they start chatting..!! They talk talk... n get highly engrossed...!!! Both r vvvvv happy meeting eachother.! And in NO time d plane lands in NY!! While partin both exchange their cards... n promise to keep in touch!
Both get busy in their lives...!!
25 years down d line.... d guy is a successful life and sitting in his lawn he gets nostaligic..!! He suddenly remembers tht gal - whom he met in the flight.. Well.. he has forgotten her name, wat he spoke with her.. everyting..!!
But there is only 1 thing he remembers!!
Her sex - female.!
This is how much... the difference between man and woman has been embedded in our lives!
thts life...
and thts d truth...!!!
Man sees everything.. in those terms!!
In this d real person actually gets lost...!!!
Wen u start distinguishing everyperson by this difference... d actual human being inside becomes second!!
We humans are social by nature. We live in groups. A group could be anything from a family to belonging to a particular religion to a partticular organisation. Every facet of our life includes correlating with others.
When staying within this group we form various relationships with eachother. We term our association with another under a relationship. A relationship could be anything from father-child, mother-child, friend, love, enemies,....
Now lets talk about relationships...
A relationship is conditional.
Every relation is defined by a condition. Someone gives biological birth to you and you call them your parents. Someone raises you and they become your guardians. You are friends with someone who helps you out, someone with whom you can hang around... Someone who has conflicting interests with yourself becomes you enemies. You love some and when that other person loves you too then you are in love.... It's completely based on a condition.
The day the condition dies... the relationship changes.
Something changes in the condition and the relationships change. Every relationship is always in a wavering state, always in a dying process always changing. So every relationship always creates fear, because always there is danger of its being broken. And the more the fear, the more you cling. And more you cling, the more fear you create.
Then there is another thing called as oneness. Oneness is non-conditional. Oneness is diametrically opposite to relationships. Oneness is unconditional. It exists because not any condition, not any expectations, not any fulfillment, not any future result is hoped. It is neither conditioned by the past nor oriented to the future. It is a momentary atomic existence, no past, no future... oneness flows!
In any relationship... achiving oneness is vvvvvvvvvvvvvvvv imp...!!
And oneness can be achieved NOT by seeing the other person via superfical barriers like the of sex - male n female...!!
Tht only restricts the frndship..!!
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