the basic 3 sides philosophy

Human existence is so real and full of matter and again yet so fleeting that it can dissolve any moment. We have long lives but no life.

According to Hindu mythology, man is half man and half woman. And it is true. Every male has some female qualities in him and each female has some male qualities in him. We humans are both... male and female. There can never exist a complete male or a complete female. Similarly, humans have been created half by God and half by Satan. Because there is good in us and bad in us at the same time.

Something as mundane as eating, sleeping, drinking, etc are controlled by this fact of life. We eat (positive) to get over the negative of hunger. We overeat (negative) to feel the heavenly feeling of good taste (positive). Thus we do something positive to get over the negative and do something negative to get more positive.

No gains without pains. I put it as - No positive without negative.

Someday you feel sad because someone insulted you. You want others to have a good feeling about you. You have a positive feeling about yourself. And when someone breaks that positive, you feel negative.

There is a positive and a negative in life. And between this positive and negative, our complete lives revolve. We are happy when we get the positive and sad when we come cross the negative.

Actually the world is a balanced one. For every truth exists a false and for every good, an evil. There is nothing like all good and an all bad thing.

I am going to show you some negatives so that you identify with them in your mind and change your self to become positive. Remember, I am not a pessimist. I plan to show you all the angles to any problem – unbiased.

Let me explain… Your intellect is like a torch. The present world has made you believe that you are presently living in a world of great peace and success. We are no more in the dark ages supposedly. The scientific development, the free trade barriers… We are made to believe that we are nearing the developed world status and that its slowly becoming a global village… All this hype that has been created generates a pseudo-brightness, a pseudo-light in which we live. In this pseudo-light our mind, our torch can’t focus its light. I plan to show you the darkness… Once, I have shown you that… you torch will automatically focus!

Thus to live your life is the best possible way, we need to use not only the positive... not only the negative... but a third side.

What is the third side of the same coin?

The third side of a coin that I want to talk about is NO physical side that you and I can see with our very own eyes. If it were SO easily visible than what was the need for me to write on the third side. The third side like the third eye of Lord Shiva is imperative and implied. It is analogical. It cannot be said.. It has never been heard about before.. It is unknown... It is the third side - illusive yet so very important.

Seen from a more real-world explanation....

There may be one of the two paradoxical reasons why a concept is rarely mentioned in the pages of philosophy & literature. One is that the concept is so familiar and mundane that no author deems it worthy of note. Such concepts exist in our lives as ubiquitously as air. These problems hamper us as unconsciously as breathing. The problem is that we know about it but we are not conscious about its happening in our diurnal life. The other is that it so abstruse and elusive, that it cannot readily be put into words.

In a more real-world explanation, I would call such unspoken concepts as the 3rd SIDE.

Three sides of the same coin is no set of rules or methods and techniques that will free you from stress, failure... and all the problems that you face. Doctrines are meaningless. Techniques and methods only encourage mechanical behavior. They kill the true you.

I don't want you to just read them... think about it and then forget it. I want you to read it, Think about it, and relate it to your life... And finally REALIZE. Realization alone will transform you.
The experience of this book alone will transform you!

My aim is single-fold... To broaden your thinking!

Between hell and heaven… earth is the third side of the same coin.

Let us learn to live on this 3rd side - earth, with 3 sides of the same coin.